Cities Vs Suburbs Vs Country Side

What makes people want to live in the city? What makes people enjoy living in the suburbs? What makes the country side appealing? My cousin went to visit his brother at the U of M and thought that it had a weird smell and did not like it one bit. He grew up in Stacy MN on a lake and very rarely comes to Brooklyn Park or Maple Grove unless he's coming for Holidays or visiting us. While Stacy is still a suburb he'd rather be somewhere with a lake a forest. His brother on the other had has no problem with big cities and doesn't understand what smell his little brother is talking about. It made me wonder what people like about cities, suburbs, and the country side, or what they dislike about them.

Holding hands

Is it cute or weird when someone in elementary school has a girlfriend or boyfriend? I think it's a little bit of both. It's cute that they know that they want to be together but at the same time it's weird because they're so young.

Letting go

When people let go of the past, how does it work? Is it simply excepting that it happened? Finding closer and forgetting. What really is the concept of letting go?

Arguments

How do people have healthy arguments? Or how do people have conversations without them turning into arguments? What really is an argument? I think of an argument as raising your voice and trying to get your point across. Some people think that it's a frustrated conversation.